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Perseverance leads to rewards

Noah Melhorn, 21, is a wildland firefighter battling blazes most recently in Arizona. But for most of his life, he fought a different type of battle with the help of his mother, Terri Fierstine. Diagnosed with dyslexia and learning disabilities when he was in fourth grade, Noah struggled to read.

“He wasn’t catching on, and I kept wondering when he would be able to read a paragraph,” says Terri, who now lives in Walker, Minn. “Both of us were frustrated.” 

When special education services during the school year didn’t help him progress, Terri sought additional tutoring help in the summer. She was eventually able to secure payment for the service through the school district her son attended at that time.

“Through perseverance, many meetings with teachers, numerous IEPs, phone calls, e-mails, and summer tutoring, Noah caught up in high school,” Terri says.

In fact, Noah was on the honor roll throughout high school and received numerous scholarships when he graduated in 2006. After graduating from a wildland firefighting program at Itasca Community College in Grand Rapids, Minn., Noah found work fighting fires in Arizona and loves the challenging job, says Terri, a mother of four.

Through the toughest school years, Terri and Noah just kept trying. “Noah always kept everything positive,” she says. “He taught me a lot. He taught me to take breaks. When things were too hard, we would shut the book and come back to it later.” Though they took breaks, Terri and Noah didn’t let discouragement keep them from pressing forward.

“During challenging times, don’t give up,” Terri advises. “Instead, take a deep breath and realize that you are your child’s strongest advocate. Persevere for your children’s special needs in education. The rewards are a lifetime of happiness in seeing your child’s dreams become a reality and knowing you did everything you could for them!”


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Fulfilling her potential with assistive technology

Elizabeth Watson, who has Asperger’s syndrome, was struggling in school because of her writing abilities. Through a PACER Simon Technology Center consultation, she found help through an assistive device that made all the difference. She now uses “The Writer,” a portable note taker that allows her to write legibly and that reads out loud what she has written. 

Through using “The Writer,” Elizabeth’s reading vocabulary score dramatically improved from 68 to 98 percent and her language expression score soared from 62 to 90 percent.  Best of all, she is now excited about writing and about her future.

“I hope that our story will encourage parents who are actively seeking technology to help their children fulfill their potential,” says Luisa Watson, Elizabeth’s mother. “Thank you PACER!”


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Resilience on the path to high school graduation

One morning, a youth named Abdi called PACER, upset and in tears. The high school senior had just been expelled from school and did not know what to do. His highest priority was to graduate with his peers, yet it all seemed in jeopardy. Eighteen, homeless, and with no family, he knew no one who could help him.

The PACER advocate learned that Abdi had been going through a special education evaluation when a security guard informed him that he was not welcome at that school anymore. Even though the special education teacher explained that she had asked Abdi to come in for the evaluation, the guard forcibly ejected him from the school.

The PACER advocate assessed the situation and realized that three things needed to happen: The question of whether Abdi had a disability needed to be resolved, an administrative error underestimating Abdi’s credits had to be corrected, and Abdi needed to be transferred to a school where he could successfully complete his secondary education. After making many phone calls and attending dispute resolution meetings on Abdi’s behalf, PACER’s advocate succeeded on all counts.

Abdi, the PACER advocate, school personnel, the school psychologist, and the district special education coordinator agreed that although Abdi probably would qualify for special education if he took some additional tests, they would forgo them because the school year was nearly over. That question about missing credits? It was resolved when administrators found they had made an error. Everyone also agreed that a placement in another school might be best for Abdi. Although he was apprehensive, Abdi understood that the move would benefit him and he accepted an administrative transfer to another location.

The PACER advocate assisted him in his transition to the new school. Abdi was so happy, he could not stop thanking his advocate and PACER.

Abdi continued to call his advocate to seek advice. One day he called nervously to ask a personal question. Since he had no family, would the advocate go with him to graduation? On that important day, the PACER advocate and Abdi’s special education teacher were there to see him walk across the stage in cap and gown and receive his hard-earned diploma.

“Despite so much hardship in his life, this young man showed amazing resilience and perseverance,” says his PACER advocate. “Where others might choose easier paths or even give up, Abdi surmounted obstacle after obstacle to graduate from high school and set himself on a path to a bright future.”

Only three months after that initial tearful call from the youth, the advocate received a June 18 text message that showed just how far things had come. It was from Abdi, wishing him a happy Father’s Day.


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Replacing crisis with plans and support

By the time Thea Johnson was born, she had already faced more challenges than most babies will ever know. Her mother, Paula, had been diagnosed with advanced breast cancer the same day she learned she was pregnant. When Paula went into labor nearly two months early, Thea entered the world medically fragile, needing oxygen and a heart monitor, and fighting multiple infections. As if she knew the road ahead would be rough, “she screamed nonstop,” says her aunt, Erika Frake. “You couldn’t soothe her.”

That road turned out to be rougher than anyone anticipated. For the past 16 years, while Paula battled breast cancer, a fight she recently lost, Thea struggled with multiple health issues, developmental delays, and learning disabilities.

“Thea had many sensory issues,” Erika recalls. “Paula was told she would probably be deaf and blind. But Paula was a total advocate for her from the beginning. ‘I know she hears me. I know she sees,’ she would say. Her mission was to help Thea succeed. Paula lived and breathed for Thea. She really fought.”

That advocacy took many forms. Born with a genetic autoimmune disorder and many allergies, Thea was medically complicated. “A lot of times we didn’t know whether Thea would live or die,” Erika says, noting that her niece would be in the hospital for months at a time.

School was a struggle, too. Frequent hospitalizations meant a lot of missed classes, and Thea was just expected to catch up on the work she’d missed. In addition, Thea has ADHD and dysgraphia, a learning disability that affects handwriting and the ability to express thoughts in written form. She couldn’t copy images, so learning to write was tedious. “She had trouble learning concepts, such as telling time. She doesn’t learn in a traditional format,” Erika says. “Teachers didn’t know what to do, and they didn’t have time to work with her.

“Paula was in tears many days,” she recalls. “She’d say, ‘I just want her to be able to learn. No one’s working with her.’ The family was in desperate need,” Erika says, as they faced mounting medical bills, constant stress, and education barriers.

Then, when Thea was 10, someone suggested that Paula call PACER Center. “I still remember when she called me in tears telling me about PACER and the wonderful people there,” Erika says. “She said, ‘Can you believe it? They do everything to make sure Thea will have what she needs in school. I don’t have to face this alone anymore! We’re implementing an Individualized Education Program (IEP). PACER told me things no one else had told me about. And they helped us sort out the insurance issues and find personal care assistants so we can have respite care.’”

It was a turning point. Instead of moving from crisis to crisis, they had a plan and support. The IEP addressed many issues and ensured that Thea would receive tutoring during her long hospitalizations. Thea, meanwhile delved into PACER’s technology workshops, Creation Station art activities, and the popular EX.I.T.E. technology and science camp for middle-school girls with disabilities.

“Thea is actually doing very well now,” Erika says. “She’s a typical teen. You would never guess in talking with her that she has learning disabilities. Her main issues are still with writing and math.”

Throughout this journey, Paula was in and out of remission, coping with her own health issues while raising Thea and three other children with her husband. Eventually, her cancer spread to her bones and treatments stopped working. Knowing that her time was limited, Paula began to worry about who would advocate for Thea as she grew older and faced transition issues. Concerned that the time after her death would be very hard for her husband and other loved ones, she worried about whether they would have the strength to advocate for Thea alone during this time.

“She wanted to have a plan of action that was set to go and would continue so Thea would not fall through the cracks,” Erika says. Paula again turned to PACER. “The parent advocates jumped up to the plate,” Erika says, noting that a plan was put into place that would protect Thea’s educational rights in the future.

In January 2009, Paula lost her 16-year battle with cancer. In the grief that has followed, there has been one island of comfort, Erika says. “She told me a few months ago, ‘I know Thea will be okay because even though I can't be her advocate anymore, PACER is still there and will help her.”


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