There are a lot of simple things you can do to help prepare your child for adulthood.

Help them learn about their disability

After your child graduates and receives their diploma, they will no longer have an Individualized Education Program (IEP). They will need to understand how their disability may affect them at work, in the community, or in their ongoing education. Talk openly with your child about their disability, strengths, and challenges. Give them the chance to practice asking for the help they need. This is called self-advocacy.

Expand their social and community networks

Parents often say a hard part of their child completing high school is they have fewer social connections. You can plan for this change and think about people or places in your community that could provide volunteer, recreation, or social experiences for your young adult. You can also research Independent Living Centers or disability-specific organizations where you may be able to find a peer or mentor with the same disability as your child.

Connect their interests to future possibilities

Young people with disabilities may have a hard time imagining their future. Help them think about how the activities they enjoy now could lead to a future job. If they like animals, you could visit an animal shelter or veterinary clinic. If they enjoy talking to people, they may like working at a store or restaurant. Encourage them to ask family and friends questions about their work.

Teach them “soft” employment skills

When teenagers and young adults get their first job, it is important that they understand how to be a responsible employee. This includes “soft skills” such as being on time, taking direction, having good hygiene, and communicating positively. You can help your child learn these skills by giving them more responsibility for household chores, involving them when hosting guests, or practicing having conversations when out in the community.

It is normal for young adults to change their minds and develop new goals. Helping your child develop self-advocacy and life skills will support their success no matter where the future leads them.