Planning for your child with a disability to move out of your family home may seem overwhelming. There are many options and sources of support available to help with this decision. 

Where does my child want to live?

As your child becomes an adult, it is important to focus on their preferences, dreams, and goals. You may hear the term “person-centered planning,” which means making decisions based on the needs and likes of the individual with a disability. As you think about housing options, ask your child questions like: Do you want to live alone or with roommates? Do you want to live where it’s busy or quiet? How close do you need to be to your job, doctor, or family members?

What services and supports do they need?

In addition to location, you should also consider the services and supports your child needs to live as independently as possible. Do they need help with daily tasks such as cooking, cleaning, and bathing? Do they have communication or behavior challenges? Can your child manage their medications and other health needs on their own? You will likely use a combination of paid and unpaid services to support your child. For example, they may have a Personal Care Assistant (PCA) who helps with some daily tasks, but your family may continue to help manage their health care appointments.

What housing options are best for my child?

There are many types of housing your family can consider. Some options include:

• Own home: This means a home owned or leased directly by your child or family member. You would select your own service providers based on the level of support needed. This option also includes subsidized housing where an individual pays reduced rent by living in a public housing site or with a housing voucher.
• Community residential setting: Also called a group home, this option typically has 2-4 individuals with disabilities living in a home with paid staff on site selected by the provider.
• Other: Options are endless, from sharing a home with a family in a similar situation to more restricted settings such as assisted living centers.

How do I start?

For services and supports: Contact your county to schedule a MnCHOICES assessment. This will determine the level of care your child needs and what services they qualify for. You can conduct this assessment while your child is still in high school.

For housing: If you are planning for your child to live in their own home, figure out how much income your child will have available through Social Security, General Assistance, and employment. Consider whether your family will be able to provide financial support for a mortgage or lease. You can also apply for Housing Support and Assistance through your county. Websites like MN Housing Benefits 101 can help you find community residential options.

Because there can be long wait lists for some services and supports, it is important to be flexible, patient, and creative. Networking with other families is another great way to explore housing options.